Living with a disabled child can be challenging at times but the more tools you have to help you, the easier it can be for you and your child. Every state has programs to help you. There are support groups that you can join to meet parents just like you. This is also a place you can take your child to meet children like themselves, without the stigma that accompanies a child with disabilities. Your child or adult child’s health care provider (Developmental Pediatrics) have a wealth of knowledge. All you have to do is ask.